SPICE makes everything nice!

Spicy Wifey is currently featured on the Execumamas Blog! We invite you to check out our feature and take some time to look around while you're there. You'll find dynamic conversations and an array of stimulating topics & tips!

http://www.execumama.blogspot.com/

The Execumama in charge and newly anointed Spicy Wifey, Akilah S. Richards is the author of Execumama: A Pocket Guide for the Twenty-something Mommy on the Move, a non-fictional piece that details the struggle and ultimate triumph of minority women who blaze career paths without compromising the care and attention that their children and partners need. Execumama can be purchased at http://www.amazon.com/ or www.wheatmark.com/bookstore. Akilah also blogs at Essence.com's ning community, Cariblifecentral.com, and YMIB.com

Check it out!

The Spicy Wifey movement promotes the fellowship and comradery of women! We are very excited to introduce Spicy Wifey to the Execumama community of bloggers and vice versa.

We appreciate the LOVE and welcome all the Execumamas out there to the flavorful world of Spicy Wifey!

Register Today!

Thanks ladies for supporting Spicy Wifey and our events! The response to Lap Dance 101 has been great! So great in fact, that we have to encourage you to register and PAY IN ADVANCE! Admittance at the door will be first come, first served and SEATING IS LIMITED!

To register, visit www.spicywifey.com, click "shop spicy wifey" to reserve your seat.

See you there!

Woo Hoo!

Feel great and celebrate your role as a wife

Spicy Wifey's belief is that being a wife is HOT!

Its also HARD!

Especially if you are investing the time and energy required to do it well. Juggling our relationships, careers and household duties can consume our daily lives.

We work hard to achieve success in those areas and often forget to work equally as hard on ourselves. Occasionally you will have to redirect your focus on YOU. Know that is not selfish to do so. In fact, it can have the opposite effect!

Presenting the best YOU to your spouse, family and the workplace is actually quite self-less and will yield better results. What you present outwardly is a reflection of whats going on inwardly. That translates into feeling good about you and being healthy. Spicy Wifey wants to empower you to invigorate your relationships and yourself.

- Silence negative voices. Don't obsess on areas in your life where you seek improvement. Your dismal perception can create negative emotions and trigger stress. Both can have a negative impact on your health and appearance. Remember to give yourself credit for things that you do well! Life is a work in progress.

- Have positive self talks regularly. Give yourself a pat on the back! Positive thinking stimulates good energy flow. Its contagious, motivating and attractive!

- If you desire to revive your marriage or career know that it requires self-revival first.
Give yourself permission to look good and feel good! You deserve to look and feel your best.

- Evolve with change. As we age or as we take on more responsibility, taking care of OUR needs will require a greater effort. Nurturing your relationship with yourself is a daily process. Don't wait for a crisis!

As a show of our commitment to inspire you and offer encouragement, Spicy Wifey will continue to offer Seasoning Sessions that reflect the diverse needs of Wifeys. Look for informative blog posts and guest bloggers that will speak on a variety of topics such as physical & mental health, fitness and style. And of course, we want you to chime in! Please continue to share your thoughts, needs and experiences.

Being a hot Spicy Wifey is a journey that we are taking together!

Bring Passion Back To Marriage

The Spicy Wifey Blog is here to serve as a source of inspiration and information. We encourage readers of this blog to share their stories, experiences and thoughts. This article was sent to us by one of our readers. She found this helpful in her relationship and wanted to share. Thank you for sharing! The source is www.beliefnet.com

7 Nights to Sexual Intimacy

Follow this week long program and watch the slow burn of passion become a fireworks display. By Rabbi Shmuley Boteach

For many years, I have sought to draw attention, as a marriage counselor and author, to the diminishing sex life of the American couple. CNN recently reported that 4o million Americans live in marriages that are utterly platonic. Sexual reconnection for married couples is not a luxury but a necessity, and a marriage devoid of lovemaking is akin to a body devoid of life. So I “modestly” propose a week of sex, especially for those couples who have a moribund sex life. What you’ll be practicing is the journey of sexual intimacy, rather than a goal-oriented sprint toward climax.

Try this 7-day program of passion, and see if you can reignite the sexual soul of your marriage.

• Night 1 - He massages her.
  
• Night 2 - She massages him.
  (For the Spicy Wifeys that attended our Massage Your Mate Session, this will be easy!)
  
• Night 3 - It's touch time!
  
• Night 4 - His turn.
  
• Night 5 - Deep kissing.
  
• Night 6 - Mind Orgasm.
  
• Night 7 - Take it home.

Visit the site for the complete article and detailed descriptions for 7 nights of passion at: http://www.beliefnet.com/Love-Family/Relationships/Marriage/7-Nights-to-Sexual-Intimacy.aspx Experience the first step to sexual intimacy.
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's new book The Kosher Sutra will be published in January by HarperOne.

Lap Dance 101 Class...Coming Soon

Have you seen this commercial? Don't let this be you! Register for our class today at www.spicywifey.com!

Contest - Win free lipgloss!

This contest is being brought to us by our friends at pinkLUXE! Check it out and may a Spicy Wifey win!

pinkLUXE is having their first contest and we want you to win! Illusions Beauty is giving their entire Young Hollywood lipgloss collection away before its official launch in late February. Just take the quiz at http://www.pinkluxelife.com/, email us your answers and the winner will be announced this Friday. Good Luck!

Valentines Day - inexpensive, sincere and sexy

Valentines Day is upon us! We've all seen the retailers with displays of pink and red explosions.

Candy, teddy bears, flowers, balloons and cards runneth over. We love our spouses everyday, but Valentines Day is a freebie. It's expressing your love made easy, right? Or is it overkill?

If you are feeling anti Valentines Day and you missed the Spicy Wifey Massage Your Mate Session, you made need some inspiration. Massage therapist, Jewette Burroughs of Hands On Quality Mobile Massage, reminded us how powerful words can be when expressing love. Although she taught us how to relax and soothe our mates with a sensual massage for Valentines Day, she noted that the experience begins long before the actual massage. She suggested to start by calling your mate at work at the start of his day and telling him how much you appreciate and miss him. Personally, I never would have thought of that. But what a fitting prelude to a romantic evening.

Men often want to feel needed, appreciated and desired. Maybe your guy gets giddy over flowers or candy but more than likely...not so much! Retail analyst suggest men like electronics, sports and technology based items. If this turns him on, great! And if you have and want to spend the funds, wonderful! But if you have man that's harder to shop for, or you are watching the budget, we suggest a different approach.

• Love Letters - And not just sweet ones. But let him know that "he's the MAN". You appreciate him and be specific. Tell him how sexy and desirable he is and how wonderful he makes you feel.
• Kinky Coupons - Make coupons that are redeemable for your affections. Get creative! Print out a sheet and slide them in his newspaper. His coffee won't be the only thing hot that morning.
• HIS Day - Proclaim a particular day of the year an official holiday in your heart in his honor. Purchase a certificate to make it look official and list all the many reasons you love and appreciate him. On his holiday, make him feel like a King. Cook his favorite meals, let him watch is favorite TV shows, etc. Whatever he likes!
  We'd love to hear how you spend Valentines Day? Share any creative ideas you have!

THANK YOU!

Last nights Seasoning Session, Massage Your Mate Session was AWESOME!

We applaud the ladies that joined us and took an important step in invigorating themselves and their relationships!

Special thanks to the fabulous

J. Burroughs CMT, LMT

of

Hands on Quality Massage

email: handsonquality@yahoo.com

We look forward seeing you at a future Spicy Wifey Event!

There is still time...

Ladies of Atlanta....

There is still time to register for the Spicy Wifey, Massage Your Mate Session!

TONIGHT

Monday, February 9th @ 7pm

Spicy Wifey is reclaiming intimacy & sensuality and putting it back where it belongs - in Marriage!

This class is an opportunity to learn how to relax & stimulate your mate through the art of massage.

Our professional massage therapist will take you step by step, illustrating how to massage the male body from head to toe.

Learn to custom blend massage oil and take your custom blended potion home!

And as an added bonus, each participant will recieve a complimentary 1 day pass to the

ultra exclusive City Club of Buckhead!

(Private Business & Athletic Club)

Just in time for Valentines Day!

Join us for this fun & sexy girls night!
Cost is $25.00

For details visit http://www.spicywifey.com/

and to register
click "shop spicy wifey"

How to Become your SEXIEST self in 2009!

Spicy Wifey declared 2009 The Year of the Wife! We know the many complexities of wifeyhood can take a toll on your inner sexy. Keeping the flame burning in marriage is critical but easier said than done. Well in 2009, bring her back! We invite you to get reacquainted with your sexy self and remind your spouse how hot you still are! Here's how...

1. Own it & Believe

What we project outwardly is a reflection of whats going on with our inner selves. Therefore, its important to believe that you are sexy if you want your spouse to believe it as well. Know that there is nothing wrong with being sensual and desirable. Sexual desire is a part of who we are as human beings and sexual intimacy is a gift when shared with your husband. If you are having difficulty believing, just fake it until you make it!

2. Rock Your Confidence

Project how fabulous you are and feel! Positive energy is contagious and attractive. By embodying a more confident persona your spouse will take notice. When you are confident, you are secure and that security will allow you to be open and vulnerable with your spouse. This allows you to enter new territory and try new sexy things!

3. Let Your Body Talk

Recall back in your single days how you would approach catching the eye of the opposite sex. An inviting smile or a sensual glance or a simple wink would trigger excitement? Well that same body language still has a place in your relationship, you just stopped using it. At this stage, you can even take flirting to the next level! No need to worry if you appear too forward of inappropriate. Let your body talk to him in 2009! He will listen.

4. Sultry Expression

Now that your new mantra is"I Believe I'm Sexy", you're rocking your confidence and you are getting your flirt on with your husband, its time for more overt expression. Take out the red stilettos, if that's what he likes! Marriage affords you certain luxuries...you can relax and let your hair down. But every once in while, go all out and make an entrance when you walk into the room! Let your husband be the envy of other men. Make an effort to wear clothes that make YOU feel good and stimulate your mate. He'll appreciate the effort!

5. Make a Move

Steps 1-3 has your inner sexy on board! Step 4 has you expressing what you already KNOW on the inside. You now feel empowered to make your move! Initiate some intimate encounters with your mate. You make the first move for a change! Your new found confidence and good energy can trickle over into other areas of your life too! Hellooooo Sexy!