Thursday, February 26, 2009

SPICE makes everything nice!


Spicy Wifey is currently featured on the Execumamas Blog! We invite you to check out our feature and take some time to look around while you're there. You'll find dynamic conversations and an array of stimulating topics & tips!

The Execumama in charge and newly anointed Spicy Wifey, Akilah S. Richards is the author of Execumama: A Pocket Guide for the Twenty-something Mommy on the Move, a non-fictional piece that details the struggle and ultimate triumph of minority women who blaze career paths without compromising the care and attention that their children and partners need. Execumama can be purchased at http://www.amazon.com/ or www.wheatmark.com/bookstore. Akilah also blogs at Essence.com's ning community, Cariblifecentral.com, and YMIB.com
Check it out!

The Spicy Wifey movement promotes the fellowship and comradery of women! We are very excited to introduce Spicy Wifey to the Execumama community of bloggers and vice versa.
We appreciate the LOVE and welcome all the Execumamas out there to the flavorful world of Spicy Wifey!

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Register Today!


Thanks ladies for supporting Spicy Wifey and our events! The response to Lap Dance 101 has been great! So great in fact, that we have to encourage you to register and PAY IN ADVANCE! Admittance at the door will be first come, first served and SEATING IS LIMITED!


To register, visit www.spicywifey.com, click "shop spicy wifey" to reserve your seat.

See you there!

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Woo Hoo!

Feel great and celebrate your role as a wife

Spicy Wifey's belief is that being a wife is HOT!
Its also HARD!
Especially if you are investing the time and energy required to do it well. Juggling our relationships, careers and household duties can consume our daily lives.
We work hard to achieve success in those areas and often forget to work equally as hard on ourselves. Occasionally you will have to redirect your focus on YOU. Know that is not selfish to do so. In fact, it can have the opposite effect!

Presenting the best YOU to your spouse, family and the workplace is actually quite self-less and will yield better results. What you present outwardly is a reflection of whats going on inwardly. That translates into feeling good about you and being healthy. Spicy Wifey wants to empower you to invigorate your relationships and yourself.

- Silence negative voices. Don't obsess on areas in your life where you seek improvement. Your dismal perception can create negative emotions and trigger stress. Both can have a negative impact on your health and appearance. Remember to give yourself credit for things that you do well! Life is a work in progress.

- Have positive self talks regularly. Give yourself a pat on the back! Positive thinking stimulates good energy flow. Its contagious, motivating and attractive!

- If you desire to revive your marriage or career know that it requires self-revival first.
Give yourself permission to look good and feel good! You deserve to look and feel your best.


- Evolve with change. As we age or as we take on more responsibility, taking care of OUR needs will require a greater effort. Nurturing your relationship with yourself is a daily process. Don't wait for a crisis!


As a show of our commitment to inspire you and offer encouragement, Spicy Wifey will continue to offer Seasoning Sessions that reflect the diverse needs of Wifeys. Look for informative blog posts and guest bloggers that will speak on a variety of topics such as physical & mental health, fitness and style. And of course, we want you to chime in! Please continue to share your thoughts, needs and experiences.

Being a hot Spicy Wifey is a journey that we are taking together!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Bring Passion Back To Marriage


The Spicy Wifey Blog is here to serve as a source of inspiration and information. We encourage readers of this blog to share their stories, experiences and thoughts. This article was sent to us by one of our readers. She found this helpful in her relationship and wanted to share. Thank you for sharing! The source is www.beliefnet.com

7 Nights to Sexual Intimacy
Follow this week long program and watch the slow burn of passion become a fireworks display. By Rabbi Shmuley Boteach

For many years, I have sought to draw attention, as a marriage counselor and author, to the diminishing sex life of the American couple. CNN recently reported that 4o million Americans live in marriages that are utterly platonic. Sexual reconnection for married couples is not a luxury but a necessity, and a marriage devoid of lovemaking is akin to a body devoid of life. So I “modestly” propose a week of sex, especially for those couples who have a moribund sex life. What you’ll be practicing is the journey of sexual intimacy, rather than a goal-oriented sprint toward climax.
Try this 7-day program of passion, and see if you can reignite the sexual soul of your marriage.
  • Night 1 - He massages her.
  • Night 2 - She massages him.
    (For the Spicy Wifeys that attended our Massage Your Mate Session, this will be easy!)
  • Night 3 - It's touch time!
  • Night 4 - His turn.
  • Night 5 - Deep kissing.
  • Night 6 - Mind Orgasm.
  • Night 7 - Take it home.


Visit the site for the complete article and detailed descriptions for 7 nights of passion at: http://www.beliefnet.com/Love-Family/Relationships/Marriage/7-Nights-to-Sexual-Intimacy.aspx Experience the first step to sexual intimacy.
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's new book The Kosher Sutra will be published in January by HarperOne.