Thursday, April 2, 2009

Hot Homework - Make a Love List!

Its it's time for our weekly homework assignment!
If you want to be better in bed, Dr. Laura says, you need to do your homework!

Dr. Laura is the director of the Berman Center in Chicago, a specialized healthcare facility for women and couples where she provides general and sexual therapy. She is also an assistant clinical professor of OB-GYN and psychiatry at the Feinberg School of Medicine at Northwestern University. Dr. Berman has been working as a sex educator, researcher and therapist for 20 years. She is the author of the New York Times best-selling book Real Sex for Real Women. (featured on Oprah)

This Week: Sometimes jealously and insecurities can creep into a relationship and create a lot of problems in the bedroom.This week, write down five things you love about your partner and have him do the same. Sit down and share your love lists with each other—you will find that jealously and insecurities will fade!

This Weekend: If you really want to create some sexual chemistry in the bedroom, make a fantasy box! Talk to your partner about sexual fantasies you both find intriguing, and write down a few on slips of paper. Put the papers into a shoe box and keep the box in the bedroom. Whenever you feel like your sex life needs a boost, select a slip of paper from the box and act your fantasy out.


Spicy Wifey said...

This is such a simple idea. But could be very effective in the bedroom. Sometimes just a simple thing can have a huge impact! Spicing it up in the bedroom doesn't have to require much time or money. Just a pen and paper!

Mrs. Brown said...

Yes, so simple but so cute & sexy! I think i will dress up my box though. So the Mr. will know that is a "special box". Maybe use the box from my favorite shoes. My christian Louboutins! Or maybe the box of his favorite shoes...the stripper ones!