This Week: Sometimes, no matter what you do to make your sex life more enjoyable, there still seems to be problems in the bedroom. This week, consider seeking out couples therapy or sex therapy. Check out the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists for a recommended provider in your area.
Often there is a stigma associated with seeking professional help or support, especially when dealing with matters of the heart and bedroom. That's understandable, because our personal lives are intimate and private! Frequently, we associate the need to seek professional support with a sense of failure or feelings of inadequacy. Women have a tendecy to share PERSONAL information with other female friends. Usually these female friends, though well intentioned aren't qualified to offer an unbiased opinion based upon years of experience, research and professional practice. Nor are they sworn to an oath of privacy and discretion. So, why not consider it sex therapy? Your mate probably doesn't want you disclosing your bedroom concerns with your girlfriends and vice versa. A therapist is discreet, judgement free and may be able to rock your sex life!