Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Bring Passion Back To Marriage

The Spicy Wifey Blog is here to serve as a source of inspiration and information. We encourage readers of this blog to share their stories, experiences and thoughts. This article was sent to us by one of our readers. She found this helpful in her relationship and wanted to share. Thank you for sharing! The source is

7 Nights to Sexual Intimacy
Follow this week long program and watch the slow burn of passion become a fireworks display. By Rabbi Shmuley Boteach

For many years, I have sought to draw attention, as a marriage counselor and author, to the diminishing sex life of the American couple. CNN recently reported that 4o million Americans live in marriages that are utterly platonic. Sexual reconnection for married couples is not a luxury but a necessity, and a marriage devoid of lovemaking is akin to a body devoid of life. So I “modestly” propose a week of sex, especially for those couples who have a moribund sex life. What you’ll be practicing is the journey of sexual intimacy, rather than a goal-oriented sprint toward climax.
Try this 7-day program of passion, and see if you can reignite the sexual soul of your marriage.
  • Night 1 - He massages her.
  • Night 2 - She massages him.
    (For the Spicy Wifeys that attended our Massage Your Mate Session, this will be easy!)
  • Night 3 - It's touch time!
  • Night 4 - His turn.
  • Night 5 - Deep kissing.
  • Night 6 - Mind Orgasm.
  • Night 7 - Take it home.

Visit the site for the complete article and detailed descriptions for 7 nights of passion at: Experience the first step to sexual intimacy.
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's new book The Kosher Sutra will be published in January by HarperOne.


Spicy Wifey said...

Thank you again The Mrs. for sending this article. We love the idea of 7 nights of passion! Hopefully, 7 can turn into many many more!

Jade Bordeaux said...

My dude hates me.........maybe once I "quit bein sick and take better care of myself" this will work! Thanks for the idea!

"the Mrs." said...

I came across this and thought this was a very interesting approach. I've heard of one that was straight sex for 7 days and I boring, but this one is suggesting bring something new everyday, which would seem to help spark more passion. I shall be trying this out in the very near future ;) Thanks.

Anonymous said...

Well Jade, I think you have to always take care of yourself first before you can take care of anyone else! Your're rigth there.

Not sure why you say your dude hates you, maybe you should deal with that first! Good luck with that!

Spicy Wifey said...

What a great point, The Mrs. Introducing something new each night is exciting. You build up to the 7th night. The anticipation is sexy!

Newbie said...

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