Spicy Wifey declared 2009 The Year of the Wife! We know the many complexities of wifeyhood can take a toll on your inner sexy. Keeping the flame burning in marriage is critical but easier said than done. Well in 2009, bring her back! We invite you to get reacquainted with your sexy self and remind your spouse how hot you still are! Here's how...
1. Own it & Believe
What we project outwardly is a reflection of whats going on with our inner selves. Therefore, its important to believe that you are sexy if you want your spouse to believe it as well. Know that there is nothing wrong with being sensual and desirable. Sexual desire is a part of who we are as human beings and sexual intimacy is a gift when shared with your husband. If you are having difficulty believing, just fake it until you make it!
2. Rock Your Confidence
Project how fabulous you are and feel! Positive energy is contagious and attractive. By embodying a more confident persona your spouse will take notice. When you are confident, you are secure and that security will allow you to be open and vulnerable with your spouse. This allows you to enter new territory and try new sexy things!
3. Let Your Body Talk
Recall back in your single days how you would approach catching the eye of the opposite sex. An inviting smile or a sensual glance or a simple wink would trigger excitement? Well that same body language still has a place in your relationship, you just stopped using it. At this stage, you can even take flirting to the next level! No need to worry if you appear too forward of inappropriate. Let your body talk to him in 2009! He will listen.
4. Sultry Expression
Now that your new mantra is"I Believe I'm Sexy", you're rocking your confidence and you are getting your flirt on with your husband, its time for more overt expression. Take out the red stilettos, if that's what he likes! Marriage affords you certain luxuries...you can relax and let your hair down. But every once in while, go all out and make an entrance when you walk into the room! Let your husband be the envy of other men. Make an effort to wear clothes that make YOU feel good and stimulate your mate. He'll appreciate the effort!
5. Make a Move
Steps 1-3 has your inner sexy on board! Step 4 has you expressing what you already KNOW on the inside. You now feel empowered to make your move! Initiate some intimate encounters with your mate. You make the first move for a change! Your new found confidence and good energy can trickle over into other areas of your life too! Hellooooo Sexy!