Wednesday, April 14, 2010

UPGRADE YOUR SEX GAME!

Spicy Wifey is getting spicy! It's Spring and is time to dust off the cobwebs. Maybe your sex life needs a Spring Cleaning as well? Or maybe a makeover or even better yet an upgrade? Are things predictable? Have you been doing the same moves since 19__? Well it's 2010 and it's time to upgrade your sex game? You might be saying oh no not me... I'm good. But do you do the same thing/routine/moves when you are ready to getting things cooking between you and hubby? Are things good but well predicatable. It's like operating your love life using the old Windows DOS when you really should upgrade to Windows7? Or at least get on Windows Vista!

It's the middle of the week so here's a little inspiration to help you get prepared for this weekend. How about greeting your hubby dressed in lingerie and an apron with heels to get things stirred up in the kitchen? Ladies we have to be creative and inspire our men and ourselves. I saw this video and thought now that's inspiration for a Spicy Wifey! You don't have to reinact the video. the point is to be creative, step outside of the box, and upgrade what I'm sure is already a good sex game. Create a character or an alter ego for yourself if you feel weird about stepping outside of the box. For example instead of being Tracy become Trixie! And Trixie isn't afraid of anything, because she's with her lover.



4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Cute idea! But I hate that the term "Daddy" is used to refer to a male lover so often in music. Usually by a young unmarried women at that.

Anonymous said...

Yes, I don't use the term either but I know older women that use that term as well. I think it's more of an old school thing in those cases. I have a real daddy my father so when I'm talking to my hubby I don't want to think about him. LOL But I love the whole sexy concept of switching it up for you man.

Anonymous said...

Yes, I don't use the term either but I know older women that use that term as well. I think it's more of an old school thing in those cases. I have a real daddy my father so when I'm talking to my hubby I don't want to think about him. LOL But I love the whole sexy concept of switching it up for you man.

Spicy Wifey said...

Ok,ok ladies! I can so see your point. I can't stand those songs either because they are being marketed to young people and its inappropriate. I think the term is both old school and new.
And I get that images of your Dad may not be appropriate when setting the mood. :)

But as Natalie said in the post,the objective is to try something different! Surprise your mate and spice it up! Take what you want from the video and leave what doesn't work for you.

Here's a thought...does your mate have a pet name he likes to be called? Or do you even know? If not explore that and I have to say if my hubby wanted to be called Daddy...I probably would. LOL!

Quin,
Spicy Wifey Co-Founder